FMAC. Finding.

Introduction

Finding is something that most men think is easy. I find this to in fact be the most difficult of the four phases.

I enjoy the company of particularly beautiful women (ratings 9+) and these are, for technical reasons such as ratio to population, hard to come by. I have several thoughts on this, but would enjoy anyone's advice on FINDING models and such. I have gone out with models, singers, exotic dancers, bar-tenders, even a private eye :)

I must admit I have been with a few not so good looking girls too. My first girlfriend, in retrospect, was a 6!

Finding Issues

'Finding' issues include:

• increasing your chance of meeting beautiful women
• meeting available women
• finding a high enough ratio of women in a given area to increase your statistical chances of success

RULE: the more doors you knock on, the more will open.

My #1 annoyance is when I decide to go out and play the GAME, knowing that the Game lasts roughly 4 hours a session, say a club from 10pm to 2am. It annoys me when I have to waste that valuable time parking the car, waiting in line, or dealing with my friends behaving strangely.

Rules

RULE: Plan your stretegy for FINDING women. Know exactly where you intend to go. Know your city. Know the day. Minimize waste of time by getting there a bit early so you can settle in.

RULE: Never buy a girl a drink. This makes you seem like every other guy. She may however buy YOU a drink. I get on average 2 or 3 drinks bought for me in a given 4 hour session.

RULE: Never drink alcohol when playing the game. Alcohol does NOT loosen you up. If you believe that, you are weak. It is an excuse to alter your feeling of 'fear'. You decrease your statistical chances of success. Sober people have more reaction time with which to process information.

Example Scenario

"EG: 2 girls, 1 guy ... sitting at a table, guy is sitting closer to the one you want .... what do you do?"

When you are drunk, you can't process complex chess game scenarios like this. ANSWER BTW is actually an easy one here: approach the other girl.

Why? She is an obstacle to the other girl. If the other girl IS single, then the 'friend' must approve of you first. Do not HIT on her, of course. NEVER hit on a girl actually. Why? Because you may have theoretically assessed the situation wrong and the less goodlooking girl may be going out with the guy. BE attractive but dont hit on anyone.

Talk to them and exude charm and confidence and humour, and allow her the opportunity to use her inate powers of seduction on you. Talk to the guy too.

Now that you have this girl laughing, although you are not sowing DIRECT interest through any form of sexual enuendo, talk to the guy. Make the guy your friend. See, from his point of view, you are just a cool guy. You are charming and funny and have much to say about his areas of interest.

Now, from the grls point of view, this guy thinks you are cool so you have HIS approval. The friend gave you her approval through laughter. And in the process you found out, by asking "So, how do you all know eachother, from work?", all the details you needed to know.

If she is in fact free for the taking, you disarmed the potential bombs already. By this time, the others are paying attention to you so the girl you secretly want will begin to feel neglected. Depending on her rating, you begin the attack. 8s and under are played out differently than 9+s, two entirely different strategies.

8s and 9+s

8s like the attention you give them.

9+s are so used to this attention you must give them 3 negative hits first, like:

"Those are very nice nails you have, are they real?"

When she admits they arent, most 9+s have fake nails, you say:

"oh. well they're still nice"

...and then turn away.

See what happens in their mind is this:

"Most guys think Im the bomb. Im used to that. But this guy doesnt think that. I must have screwed up my first impression image. No worries, Ill just fix that."

She now thinks that she can bat her eyes and fix the little smear in her image. You weren't an asshole about it, you just showed her you noticed a flaw but were polite about it. She will try to impress you now. She is chasing you.

Do it again, another negative hit:

"Ha! Your nose moves when you talk. Its so funny. No, really, its so cute. Ha ha."

9s and 10s don't GET treated this way. How? Like a normal friend. Like someone you can joke around with. Thats all they want. To be accepted, and this is what you are doing.

But she is now even more into fixing the not-so-pristine image she is used to having. So she tries to solve this little issue. And what happens while she's busy solving the issue? Shes talking to you. Conversing. She's interested in making you like HER.

Asking for the Number

You can NEVER ask a 10 for her #. Why? Because EVERY GUY in the wolrd and his FATHER asks.

You are different. You say:

"Well, It was really nice meeting you."

As you start walking away, you then say:

"For an outgoing girl, you are pretty shy afterall."

If she is interested in you by now, she will say:

"Why?"

This is the beginning to flirting. You say:

"because I'm leaving silly. :)"

This word 'silly' is NEVER used in front of a 9 or 10 from a stranger, so this shows your confidence and coyness. AND, this is the third negative HIT.

Notice none of these NEG HITS are really BAD. They are just not the usual flattery they get from guys. You are now waiting for her to say something, just staring at her. She is on the spot. She is a 10 and she knows it. She has an ego.

You never really HIT on her. You were coy. You were about to leave without asking her for her #. She KNOWS you arent like the rest. You MUST have girls chasing you from the attitude you are displaying.

If she doesn't say anything with regards to her giving you her phone #, say:

"Yep. You're shy."

...and walk away with a smile.

However, this isnt likely because she has an ego. In this case you have played on her ego to actually WANT to make you LIKE her and she will now be open to getting together again.

See, being on the spot, she has to come up with something very smooth to say to keep her EGO bloated. She is now having to prove her social abilities to you. She is trying to impress you still anyway. Anything she says will come out flirtatiously, but you accept it with OPEN ARMS baby. She wants to SHOW you she isnt SHY so she will be BOLD and ask for YOUR #.

When she does, say:

"no ... but we can exchange #s. Fair?"

RULE: NEVER give your # to a girl. If you get around to asking for her # and she says, "Ill call you" just say, "no, Ill call you." If she doesnt give her #, she wouldnt call you anyway so just say, "Nice meeting you" and leave.

After a girl DOES give her # to you, you may then write yours for her as you say:

"We'll trade ... fair?"

She will smile and say:

"fair."

Example

Nice meeting you.
Nice meeting YOU.
I'll call you this weekend.
bye

You have just picked up a 10! And SHE chased YOU! And you made her ask for YOUR #. You were hard to catch. She wont forget THAT. You arent an easy guy. You arent like the others. You were a challenge. But she finally WON. Well, hopefully, she still has to call you now!

On the Phone

Now when you are on the phone with her, you say:

"You know, you dropped something when we were last together."

She says:

"what?"

You say:

"Your conversation with me ... where did we leave off?"

She will um and ah and you say:

Oh yes, we were flirting with eachother.
Yes Im babbling.

Mystery

PS

PS: the scenario I just told happened to me several times exactly as is ... in fact I swear to 2 days ago this happened. The girl was a 10! TV quality and single-handedly the best looking girl in the club. On the block!

Secretly, though I showed this coyness and reserve, inside I'm thinking, "OH GOD! oh god oh god oh god!" I hid it well. I have her #. She will hopefully call me on saturady. If not, Ill wait til sunday to call her.

Note Translation of the second part of the article The greatest art of them all, featuring the first appearance of Mystery. At present, the FMAC model is considered outdated, as M3 exists.