Agreeing

When you're kissing her and turning her on, and she says something like, "We should stop," agree with her while playfully continuing to build the sexual tension.

The idea is that you keep moving things toward sex while talking about how wrong what you're doing is.

You're right, we should stop.

It's still too soon. We should stop.

I can't believe I'm letting you get the upper hand over me. We need to slow down. I need more time.

You're right. I shouldn't be turning your lamp off. Oops.

The point is to make her laugh and pull her mind out of that overwhelmed, forbidding state.

Disclaimer:

• No means no.
• Stop can mean something different from "we should stop."
• If she keeps resisting even after you've agreed that you should stop, then stop.
• If there's any doubt, stop. Communication is your friend.