Trust Test

The honesty test is a good way to move things in a more romantic direction. Maintain steady eye contact (or the triangle – eyes-lips) and don’t explain anything until she’s completed the entire test.

Okay, let’s do a trust test. Give me your hands.

Place your palms on hers.

Squeeze her hands. If she squeezes back, she passes.

Lower your hands, and if she lowers hers as well, she passes.

Then tell her whether she passed or not, and what this tells you about her ability to communicate and trust people. If all goes well, she’ll be more responsive to physical escalation.