Forbidden Territory

This routine is suitable when she feels comfortable and the level of physical intimacy is high; it provides a smooth, easy transition to kissing. Pull her hair back, look her in the eyes, and say:

Girl, this is so bad. We can't do this. We don’t even know each other well enough yet. Okay, look, this is forbidden territory. place your fingers on her lips. We can kiss everywhere except the lips, because we're not ready for that yet.

Then look into her eyes, start kissing her forehead, her cheeks, everywhere but her lips. Pull her face toward you, kiss her neck, and after a couple of minutes she’ll start moaning and really enjoying it. At this point, she’ll be ready to kiss you and really want it. Kiss her, she'll love it.

Use this also in situations where there is a real reason for something to be forbidden—for example, she's your sister’s friend, her friend is nearby, etc. The forbidden, turning into seduction and temptation, is a powerful trigger for many women. Even made-up barriers work powerfully.