Almost a Kiss

Here's what we're going to do. We're almost going to kiss. We get as close as we possibly can, but no kissing. This is a trust test, but you're not allowed to kiss me. And I'm not allowed to kiss you. It's not time for that yet.

Then move closer to her. Actually do what you just said. This is an art — doing it this way. Get close, but don't make her think you're trying to kiss her.

Your lips should be close enough that you can feel her breath. Don't try to kiss her. If she resists, don't push. Playfully push her away and move on to another routine. After a couple of minutes, say:

All right, you need to stop thinking about that almost-kiss until you're ready.

If you've done this routine once, you can safely do it again, just saying you want to. Always break off the almost-kiss after 2-3 seconds, even if she seems comfortable.

After you've done this 4 times, the real kiss will happen naturally. Often, she'll even ask for it herself.