Matador Kiss

You need to look at the girl very sincerely and gently. The ultimate goal is authenticity: a genuine feeling on her part that you are attracted to her, that intimacy is growing between you, and that this feeling is coming from deep inside you.

Gently cup her face with both hands, softly, gracefully, without being abrupt, not too masculine, as a romantic would — do it with a playful touch.

Then lightly, making sure she feels happiness and a sense of closeness, begin to slowly and elegantly kiss her on the cheek.

Then move back — but only by 10% — and look at her with a sincere smile. The most important thing here is that the smile is completely genuine.

If she reflects your emotional state, begin a new kiss, this time on the lips.

When you touch her cheeks you will notice a change in her emotional state if she is not ready. Your fingertips will feel something akin to tension, her desire to turn her face away. These are signs that she’s not ready yet. If she behaves this way, do not move to the second stage. Instead, step back, demonstrate IOD, then continue and try to kiss her again.

If after the kiss on the cheek you move back to look at her, and she does not reflect your emotional state, do not go to the second stage.

This is a calm way out of the situation. If she is not ready, you’ll know two steps in advance — and you’ll never end up in an awkward situation. If she is ready, you’ll feel warmth, joy, and closeness in her emotional state, and this feeling will be mutual.