Wild Strawberry Field

This routine is an interactive thought experiment in which, by answering questions, a woman discovers sides of her personality, much like in the Rorschach test. However, the goal is not just to create an emotional state for her where she feels comfortable, sexy, and wants to know you more. That's why we described specific “meanings” of her answers that will steer the conversation in the right direction.

You can explain that Wild Strawberry Field is a psychological experiment, or just start the routine right away.

Okay. You’re walking down the street and you approach a wild strawberry field. How high is the fence?

She answers or shows you with her hands.

Hmm, interesting. Okay, you go inside. How many strawberries do you eat?

Doesn’t matter what she says. If it’s more than 2, say:

Oh my god, n berries! shake your head. You’re so baaad! I could never take you home to meet my mother!

She will angrily ask, “What?!” No matter what she does, don’t answer.

What about the farmer?

She’ll say, “What farmer?” or “Did he see?” or something like that. Here, look down, smile, and just shake your head like you can’t believe it.

Now, she’ll beg you to tell her what you learned from all this. Here are some core interpretations:

Fence:

You have high goals and expectations, but not so high that you can’t reach them...

Number of berries:

You said n berries, you’re such a baaad girl, that’s your sexual appetite. Most people prefer say a much lower number berries, but you said n—oh, give me a break, I’ll never get any rest with an appetite like yours!

Farmer:

He represents what it means to act according to the rules of society and the expectations of others. So, you just follow your feelings and don’t let other people run your life.

Basically, you’re telling her that she’s very sexual and that she follows her feelings and doesn’t care what her friends or society say. Most likely, this is the life she wants to live—she’ll feel more comfortable and open to moving towards sexual intimacy.

Her friends might ask you to do this routine for them later. Try not to. If you have to, switch to other routines like the 4 Questions or Family Room routines.