Cast-Hook-Reel-Release

You need to give the target IOIs, but you need her to earn them, otherwise she won’t value you as a partner. Instead, your IOIs will only flatter her as proof of her sexual power, and she’ll lose attraction toward you.

The idea is to provoke a woman into demonstrating high value to you. Cast the line—get her to tell you something interesting about herself so that when she responds (hook), you can give her an IOI (reel), only to push away again (release her, withdraw the courtship). This process repeats several times.

Here’s an example for you to use in the field:

Cast:

What’s your nationality?

Hook:
She answers

French.

Reel:

Seriously? No way! The girl I had the wildest relationship with in high school was French!

Release:

Now I can’t even talk to you.

Every time she demonstrates high value to you, show her your interest. That way she’ll believe your IOIs, and when you finally give her an SOI, she’ll feel like she really deserves it. This allows your attraction to grow for several minutes for good reason, instead of just giving her an IOI because she gave you one.