Role Reversal

A powerful tool for creating attraction is to twist what a woman says, as if she’s expressing romantic or sexual interest in you. By doing this, you show humor and demonstrate that you are unique and a challenge for her, which flips two switches in a woman’s mind at once.

Most of these twists involve you playing the traditionally "female role," which can flip her frame into the traditionally male role—she's trying to win you over and seduce you. Don’t overdo it—otherwise it may lose its effectiveness.

A few examples:

Don’t think you can just get something from me just because you bought me a drink.

Wow, are you always in such a rush to get to that?

I don’t want to rush things.

I don’t want to get hurt. I need some comfort and trust first.

I need to get to know you better first.

I don’t want to do that on the first date.

You just want my body!

Are you always this fast?

Fine... If you’re lucky.

I’m not ready for a relationship right now.

I wore my old underwear tonight just to make sure nothing happens.

I swear, all girls ever think about is one thing.

Oh my god, are you groping me?

That guy over there looks right for you.

Stop! I already know you too well...

Let’s just be friends.