Embarrassing Compliment
Find something that you think she’s a bit self-conscious about, and draw attention to it.
Oh my God! I just noticed something!
She asks what.
How wonderful!
Now she’s genuinely curious.
You have the coolest… Overbite, like a little bunny.
She’ll blush and cover her face with her hands.
Or:
You know, I didn’t even hear a single word you just said, because I was just looking at… Wait, you smiled again.
She can’t help but smile, and now she’ll start to feel a bit embarrassed—maybe you noticed something weird about her teeth or something like that.
Oh my God… You have the cutest crooked smile. Just like that cat from Alice in Wonderland.
Think about what makes women self-conscious about themselves:
- Height
- Unusual smiles
- Braces
- Red hair
- Freckles
- Spots, beauty marks
The goal of this:
- To make her blush and throw her off her usual social program. If she’s beautiful, her usual program includes men showering her with compliments and worshipping her. This will shake up the dynamic she’s used to.
- To show that you genuinely like her.
- To activate those old anchors towards you, because in relationships a woman will often talk about these specific insecurities to her boyfriend. Most boyfriends reply with something like, “Honey, I love all of you, including those things.” By expressing the same kind of message, you can start to create that kind of bond.
It’s very important to only mention things that cause minor embarrassment. Stay away from heavy topics like breast size, weight, scars, etc.